The Fear That Comes After Success

One thing that isn't really talked about openly all that much, but is when it comes to working one-on-one with clients or with friends is that once you reach a level of success like you finally made it or whatever the numbers of success are that you thought was going to be amazing, there's this hidden fear that comes up. It's the fear of losing it. And we don't really talk about that, that much.

Usually, it's like, "Oh, I just need to get better. I'm so scared that I'm not going to have my success," but on the opposite side of that, once you have it, you're afraid to lose it. So when you start to think about being human, we're going to have fears. It doesn't mean that just because you have a certain amount of material things or whatever it is the fears will actually go away. So what we should be looking at instead is how to conquer our fears not how to get more success.

Because it's the lack of fear, right, that we really, really want to be having, and we're going after the material things in order to try and conditionally select that option instead of another one. But just know there are layers upon layers of our psyche that we can be scared of. And so ideally, what you want to do is get better and better within yourself at managing and controlling those fears with meditation or a bunch of other tactics that you can use, and that, that is what will give you fulfillment, not all the stuff. But the stuff is nice too. You just don't want to feel like you have fear even after you have the stuff because that sucks. So, hopefully, you take that quick tip today and start.